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It's Ok To Cry



Finally after 4.5 months I'm back to posting. My post is going about life talks and I'm sharing my trip photos to Gili Islands, Indonesia and my airport outfits. 
And here’s the reality of it, sometimes things is freaking suck and there’s nothing you can do about it but push through it and that’s the truth. Everyone tells you that its gonna get better, and they’re right, but sometimes it gets worse before it can improve. So when you’re at your worst you’ve need to fight back, defy the odds of darkness and laugh in its face. 
When you’re having a bad day, go take a hot bath, blast your favorite music and breathe. Maybe while you doing it, the bad thoughts don’t leave your mind, but at least you’re clean. When everything inside of you is breaking, let yourself feel it. 


 Everyone tells you that you can’t cry, that you shouldn’t, and you know what? I think that’s a b*llshit. I think it’s good to let the strings inside of you break, to let the water overflow and drown you for a while because that’s how you feel and that’s what reminds you that you’re alive. Because maybe you feel numb, maybe your heart feels too heavy, maybe everything inside of you is begging you to quit, but those are the side effects of living. 

 You are going feel everything, and it’s gonna hurt so badly but that’s not the only thing you’re gonna feel. You are also going to feel joy, excitement, anticipation, and pure blissful happiness. But you’re going to have some days where everything hurts you, where it all feels like too much and you’re really gonna want to give up, and you know what? That's OKAY. 
Despite everything or everyone always wants to say. You have a right to feel this way, because things are hard. You aren’t weak for feeling this way because even the strongest have a right to collapse. 


 I’ll be the first to admit that sometimes things get to be too much but when you hit bottom, bottom is gonna start hitting you back and you’re gonna be bruised and scarred. But you know the best thing about that? Bruises heal, wounds close up, and bones realign. So yes, it HURTS. 
But you’ve got to breathe through the pain, you’ve got to trudge through the dark times until you see that little sliver of light and when you see it? Run to it. and if you can’t run, walk, and if you can’t walk, crawl to it! 
Do whatever it takes to carry yourself through it and if you see hands reaching out for you, please, take them. You can’t always do things on your own and that is okay to get help. 
But you are doing great. And if things didn’t get better, you wouldn’t still be here today. There’s a little something that gets you through your life everyday, so hold onto that no matter how little or silly it is. 
You’ll be alright. And you definitely not alone :)

See you in next post,
XX,


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When You Love Someone

I've been addicted to listen this song: When You Love Someone from James TW. 
"Sometimes moms and dads fall out of love
Sometimes two homes are better than one
Some things you can't tell your sister 'cause she's still too young
Yeah you'll understand
When you love someone"
When you love someone you just do anything for them, It don't make sense but nevertheless, We do what we must do for the best. When you love someone, "unforgiveable" is not part of your vocabulary. I think 'someone' it means everyone. Your parents, your kids, your partners or lovers, your friends, just everyone that you love. 
Anyway, this is one of my outfits of the week.






Top: Herspot
Shoes: Charles & Keith

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xx,
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Do You Ever Feel


Do you ever feel unmotivated, uninspired, stuck, alone, tired? Etc etc.
Yeah me and my friends feel it too, we called it quarter life crisis hahahaha.
But somehow I encourage myself that I'm not alone. 
We just need to remember:
Don't lose yourself. Do whatever makes us happy. Laugh a lot. And just breathe. All is well. 
My outfits (sorry for the quality, just took it with iphone) :)





Jacket: Na-kd
Shoes: Adidas Tubular Shadow
Bag: Zara

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xx,
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Wanderlust


In December 2016, I decided to quit my stable job for 3 years. I remember the day I brave enough to leave my work desk at office and sign a contract to join one of airlines company in my country. My new job as an aircrew (Mandarin Interpreter in flight). The contract just for 3 or 4 months. At that moment, I afraid I took a wrong decision for leaving my stable job for something that so unpredictable. But now, I tell my friends: "These past 3 months is amazing. I'll never forget these short experiences. And I'm not regret for anything." 
For the last 3 years, I worked days and nights, even I need to bring my laptop while hanging out with friends. Never thought in these 3 months I'd visit a lot of amazing places. Met a lot of new peoples, learned a lot of new things. So in the end, I just want to tell you guys that it's okay to try a new things, It's okay to find yourself scared and questioning certain decisions we've made. We'd rather regret the things we've done than regret the things we haven't done. Now I'm searching for a new job and a new experience. Wish me luck :)




  















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xx,


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Out of Service Temporarily

Yeah I know guys I've been hiatus on blogging for awhile. My computer was broken :( It's been 2.5 months I'm not post anything. But anyway this is it, my first post on 2017. I want to share my outfit of the day. Wearing cute t-shirt from Bershka. Saw it and need to bough it immediately. It's so freaking me. My friends always known that I'm lazy to reply all of their chats. Or I replying after 4-5 hours. Hahaha. I don't know why but I'm not a texting/chatting person. 

 Tshirt : Bershka
Jacker : Pull & Bear
Belt and Jeans : Forever21
Shoes : Adidas Tubular Shadow



Matching kicks with my bestie 
and last, happy belated valentine! Bouquet from WanderlustFlorist

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Scars To Your Beautiful

One of my current favorite song, its from Alessia Cara. This song's lyric = WOW.

"You should know you're beautiful just the way you are
And you don't have to change a thing
The world could change its heart
No scars to your beautiful, we're stars and we're beautiful"

Us as women always felt uneasy with our appearance. Am I pretty enough? Am I fat? Why my hair not beautiful like her hair? Why I can't wearing clothes like others? Honestly, It happened on me too. I've a birthmark on my face, I've been called a lot of names because of it when I was a kid. It makes me lack of confidence. Even when I cover it with makeup, I still really not confidence when meet new people. 
But in the mean time, I learn to accept all of me. It's hard (DUH HONESTLY YEAH). But, I still learn it until now. Sometimes new people asked "oh you had something on your face?", "what is that on your face?". I used to felt so hurt, but now I always answer with smile: "It's my birthmark hehe". Sometimes I confidence enough to not cover it with any makeup and go out. My Mom told me to do laser treatments, and yes I do it for her. But I told my mom and myself, if I didn't get the good result, I will embrace my birthmark for the rest of my life. Because for me, I am good ENOUGH :) 



yep thats my birthmark on the left cheek :)

 All of my outfits from RIBBONCLOSET , love the fabric so much. I took this photo in Bali, and the outfits is perfect for strolling 

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xx,

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