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Tuesday, September 19, 2017

It's Ok To Cry



Finally after 4.5 months I'm back to posting. My post is going about life talks and I'm sharing my trip photos to Gili Islands, Indonesia and my airport outfits. 
And here’s the reality of it, sometimes things is freaking suck and there’s nothing you can do about it but push through it and that’s the truth. Everyone tells you that its gonna get better, and they’re right, but sometimes it gets worse before it can improve. So when you’re at your worst you’ve need to fight back, defy the odds of darkness and laugh in its face. 
When you’re having a bad day, go take a hot bath, blast your favorite music and breathe. Maybe while you doing it, the bad thoughts don’t leave your mind, but at least you’re clean. When everything inside of you is breaking, let yourself feel it. 


 Everyone tells you that you can’t cry, that you shouldn’t, and you know what? I think that’s a b*llshit. I think it’s good to let the strings inside of you break, to let the water overflow and drown you for a while because that’s how you feel and that’s what reminds you that you’re alive. Because maybe you feel numb, maybe your heart feels too heavy, maybe everything inside of you is begging you to quit, but those are the side effects of living. 

 You are going feel everything, and it’s gonna hurt so badly but that’s not the only thing you’re gonna feel. You are also going to feel joy, excitement, anticipation, and pure blissful happiness. But you’re going to have some days where everything hurts you, where it all feels like too much and you’re really gonna want to give up, and you know what? That's OKAY. 
Despite everything or everyone always wants to say. You have a right to feel this way, because things are hard. You aren’t weak for feeling this way because even the strongest have a right to collapse. 


 I’ll be the first to admit that sometimes things get to be too much but when you hit bottom, bottom is gonna start hitting you back and you’re gonna be bruised and scarred. But you know the best thing about that? Bruises heal, wounds close up, and bones realign. So yes, it HURTS. 
But you’ve got to breathe through the pain, you’ve got to trudge through the dark times until you see that little sliver of light and when you see it? Run to it. and if you can’t run, walk, and if you can’t walk, crawl to it! 
Do whatever it takes to carry yourself through it and if you see hands reaching out for you, please, take them. You can’t always do things on your own and that is okay to get help. 
But you are doing great. And if things didn’t get better, you wouldn’t still be here today. There’s a little something that gets you through your life everyday, so hold onto that no matter how little or silly it is. 
You’ll be alright. And you definitely not alone :)

See you in next post,
XX,


18 comments:

  1. Glad to see you back and hope you had a great trip! It's totally fine to cry and sometimes it's better to do so because we feel so much better after!

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  2. Love the outfits and great post!
    Thanks for sharing!
    -Gabby
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  3. Love it, live life with REAL emotions! Cry and laugh whenever you can, it's what makes life real!

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  4. Beautiful post - definitely let it out if you need to! Also, gorgeous photos from your trip!

    Tina
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  5. I concur with this, its healthy to let it all out some times. Helps!! Great shots here, beautiful.

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  6. I can definitely relate and nod to all of what you've written here, girl. Thanks for sharing your strength with us. I hope you're doing great now, these photos look so happy!

    XO,
    Jalisa
    THE STYLE CONTOUR

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  7. Love to see travel snaps like this. Btw TOTALLY agree with letting out tears drown us for a while 'because that’s how you feel'.

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  8. I am loving these photos, girl. I so agree about letting it all go in a good cry. Sometimes it really does help! :) Can't wait to read more of your posts, lovely! xo

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  9. Great post! It's definitely ok to let it out sometimes

    Vicky
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  10. Thank you for sharing this true and real post

    Filipa xxx
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  11. I love your striped swimsuit !
    So pretty !
    xx,
    Margot
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  12. I totally agree, life isn't perfect and we have to accept that sometimes things go wrong! x

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  13. Beautifully written.
    Thanks for sharing.
    xx
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  14. I agree, that it is absolutely ok to cry and show your softer side :)


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  15. This post is so on point! I couldn't agree more - it's okay to feel sad and hit rock bottom sometimes because everything will pass eventually.

    Have a lovely day!
    xx Kris
    https://dreamingofpink.wordpress.com

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  16. Glad to see you back from blogging work dear.
    This is inspiring thoughts.

    Much Love,
    Zarrah | The Bandwagon Chic

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  17. So thoughtful! Thanks for opening up!

    With Love & Style,
    ♥ Amber
    ALL THE AMBIENCE

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  18. Such a beautiful post! And such beautiful pictures!! Have a wonderful day sweetie!
    xx
    Shivangi
    www.outoncatwalk.com

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